The Birth Story!!!

I mentioned in previous posts that it was planned that I would be induced a little early for this pregnancy. Due to some complications I had in my previous pregnancy and labor, my practice was trying to push a c-section, but I was able to talk them out of it and get induced instead. We scheduled it for April 19, but due to the baby palooza going on around here, it was delayed for a day, and so I was admitted in the evening of April 20.

Like last time, I am hesitant to give the details. It was another scary labor, so I’ll just give you the condensed version.

The good part was that I was already effaced and so all they had to do this time was help me to dilate. I was at a 2 when I got there and just 10 hours later, I was at a 9.5.

It’s here that the wheels fell of the wagon. After having virtually no pain from a combination of an epidural and demeral, my ob informs me that they are going to shut off my epidural to help me push better to avoid some complications I had with my last labor.

Turn off my epidural!!! Did you know that stuff leaves your body in like 10 minutes or less? Me either, I learned the hard way! Do you know what it’s like to have no build up of contractions and go from zero pain to the pains of contractions at 9.5 cm??? I do and I honestly thought I was going to die!!

So the short of it is:

Once the epidural was out of my system I became a wild screaming and crying animal.

It was scary.

Real SCURRY!

There were other parties involved crying in terror besides myself.

My doctor was nervous and used the word “intense.”

My doctor was also birthing a set of twins at the same time and kept telling me to stop pushing and then would leave the room. At one point I yelled at him to come back and then pushed anyway, and that made him come running back.

I had a huge baby stuck in me.

I thought my pelvic bone was breaking.

Apparently, my pelvic bone was almost breaking.

In the end we welcomed a healthy baby boy to our family! (He looks just like his daddy!)

Austin Matthew Tow
9 lb.  20 1/4 in.
April 21, 2012 at 3:22 pm
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Jinx!

I shouldn’t have joked yesterday about this house being a shit factory….or throwing up in my mouth. Cause not too long after that post, our shit factory turned into a shit & vomit factory. As in food poisoning for me and Matt.

Yikes!

You know what’s harder than taking care of two under two? Doing it with food poisoning.

It was mothering at my best. The all night chills drained the energy out of me to the point where I couldn’t lift Jamie into her high chair, so I let her eat cookies and juice on the couch cause I couldn’t handle the smell of anything else we usually feed her. I know, right? And then I turned on the tv and was all like, “that’s 90210 baby, you’re going to love it!”

Ok, I didn’t. She watched the Sprout channel all day. But, seriously, what’s the difference? She watched tv all day while I tried to peel myself of the couch, sometimes ground, to feed the baby and change diapers ( another fun task when you feel your insides are boiling.)

I did manage to feed Jamie a good lunch and dinner. Fortunately, my mom came over after a meeting and made us some soup with crackers and got Jamie, who at this point was running around in circles from cabin fever, outside for a little while.

In an effort to make me feel better my mom told me a story about once when she, my dad, and I all had the flu except my sister who was probably in the 1st grade at the time. They weren’t even sure what she did for those three days and all she could make herself was cereal. So, yeah…I guess it does happen to the best of us.

Anyhow, thankfully the day is over and we made it! Still not 100% but we’ve both kept down the little bit of soup with both ate. Let’s hope tomorrow is a better day!

Ps- is it bad that I’m a little excited about possibly having lost more of my baby weight from this? What? Only two more Flu’s/Food poisoning and I’m back in my mom jeans!

It’s Mother’s Day, and you know what that means….

I’m a mommy of two!

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I’m finally breaking my blogging hiatus to let you know that I’m still alive, and yes I did have the baby!!

Thank God, or else I’d be like 42 weeks pregnant right now and that just made me throw up in my mouth a little bit just thinking that.

Anywho, now that I’m getting my bearings with “two under two” I’ll start updating this blog a little more regularly. I’ve been one busy lady, here. I’m telling you, two in diapers is not for the faint of heart. I’m pretty tired and it smells like a shit factory around here…no joke!

Alrighty. I’ll leave you with that little thought and come back soon with some updates.

Happy Mother’s Day to all my Mommy friends!

April Book Club – “Water for Elephants”

I’m pretty sure many of you have read this. I’m way behind the band wagon, and I know it! However, perhaps you didn’t finish it and this gives you an excuse to “git er done.” Or, maybe you never had a chance to discuss and you loved/hated the book, then you can join in on the discussion at the end of the month. See? It’s a win/win.

April’s book is “Water for Elephants” by Sara Gruen

 

 Happy Reading!!

Book Review- “Swamplandia!”

Ha! I’m late with my own deadline, but I have a great excuse!!!

My sister had her baby early morning, yesterday, and I’m an Aunt!!

 

Anyway, back to our regularaly scheduled post….

Swamplandia!

Did anyone read it with me??

Listen, I really, really, really wanted to like this book. I absolutely loved the writing. I loved the way the author spoke to you like she was talking face to face with you. I loved that she was hilarious at some points. I just loved her “regular speak,” if you will.

However, I hated the story. Was it supposed to be happy? I don’t know. I have to admit that I like a happy ending. I mean, life is hard enough. If I’m going to escape it’s going to be an escape into something wonderful and romantic and funny, or at least riveting and exciting. Know what I mean?

The story was sad and not to spoil things (in case you plan on reading it) but a little girl gets raped. And, I have a daughter! I just couldn’t imagine it and it was tough to read! Also, the father is just horrible. Not like an abuser, but definitely not a good dad and this makes me so angry!!

In terms of the characters, however, I will say that even though I didn’t like most of the characters (I only liked 1, ok Vijay was pretty funny, so two.), I have to admit that character development was pretty well done. I really got to know most characters and I do think that is an important element to novels.

Overall, I would have to give it an “eh.”

Good writing, not so good story.

What did you think?

 

Still here- no baby!

I know I’ve been MIA, but really it’s because I’m a crazy person and haven’t had enough hours in the day to blog. I’ve got over 200 (other people’s) blog posts sitting in my reader to give you an idea of how little I’ve been on the nets these days. The reasons are simple and none of them include having a baby or another kidney stone (thank GOD!!):

1) I had Spring Break last week and so we met up with some of Matt’s family in Cocoa Beach for 2 days.

2) I’m lazy.

3) I tried cleaning my house. Cause, I’m probably one of the few preggo’s who does not nest, so I had to force myself to clean house. Pathetic. But, my husband thanks me (sort of- I may or may not have made a bigger mess trying to “organize” while I cleaned. MISTAKE!)

4) I got Jamie’s 18 month pictures done. Yeah…my baby is 18 MONTHS OLD!! Post on that later…

5) I finally got maternity pics done. I know, I know. This poor baby is definitely getting the second child treatment.

6) I’m very very lazy right now.

7) I’m 9 months pregnant and taking a course more suited for college and it is KICKING MY BIG MOMMY BUTT.

8) I finally got a Baby Central Station set up in my room (code for I’m a terrible mother and in the spirit of the red-headed step-child syndrome, baby #2 does not get a nursery). BUT, he does now have a place to sleep, which is better than the drawer we were going to have to put him in if I hadn’t set up the Baby Central Station. He also has clean clothes (I did 7 loads of baby laundry) and clean burp clothes, towels, bibs, etc. I also put batteries in the bouncy seat for the vibration effect, because every good mom knows that a vibrating bouncy seat is ESSENTIAL <——-Mommy Tip #675. You’re Welcome!

9) Did I mention I’m freaking 9 months pregnant and exhausted as all hell?

10) I read the entire Hungry Games Trilogy because everyone else has and why not? It’s not like I’m sleeping at night and it takes very little effort. You might be thinking that could be a great time to blog, but taking out the laptop, opening it, turning it on and typing is a lot of work. Plus it requires thinking and I am only using brain cells to get me through this class, work, and mommy duties. I’ll post my thoughts on the trilogy soon!

So, as you see it’s not like I’m sitting around eating bon bon’s, although I have been eating a lot of cupcakes lately. That’s what happens when you make a dozen cupcakes for a BBQ that gets cancelled. Plus, I’ll be eating pretty much air and water after I give birth (maybe ice for treats when I’m good) cause I have two family weddings to go to before Jr. even hits 6 months so ya know….better savor the goods while I can.

To keep me accountable to post on here I will tell you that I will post:

1) The book review for Swamplandia, tomorrow. Anyone read it with me? I’ll also post April’s book.

2) About Rhiannon’s shower I helped plan and show some of my crafts on Friday.

3) About Jamie’s 18 month update on Saturday.

4) Give a baby update and show some maternity pics/Baby Central Station pics on Sunday.

5) My thoughts on the Hunger Games (trilogy and movie) on Monday.

Is that fair? Then you’ll be all caught up with my affairs and we can all do the countdown until I am unpregnant again.

PS- is it bad karma to buy those alcohol strips for breast feeding from BRU? I mean, I could really use some wine once Baby gets the boot, but I’m already feeling all guilty with the whole breast feeding thing. Gah! Sometimes I wish I were a man, but with no facial hair and a great sense of fashion. You know, like a gay man.

 

I couldn’t resist…

It’s not just me!

My sweet hubby sent me an email this morning to let me know I’m not the only one who confused Virginia with “Vagina.”

Apparently, so did this first grader…

 

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I’m whooped!

People, I am so freaking exhausted these days I’m like a walking pregnant zombie (that has to pee alot).

Example: This morning on my way to work I thought that the road read, “Vagina Dr.” But, really it read, “Virginia Dr.” Which, honestly, makes sense since that’s what the name has been all these years driving to school. I don’t know why today it should be different.

Lately, I’ve been hiding out in my house as much as possible. Mostly because I have a sick toddler and I’m required to, but Matt said that was just an excuse and I think he may be right. I would stay home no matter what. True.

Remember how I had that kidney stone last week? Well, I’m feeling so much better now. Wednesday, I felt wonderful at work for the first time in ages. However, that night Jamie had a fever all.night.long. She had it most of Thursday, too. Matt and I took shifts taking Jamie’s temperature all night long. She was stripped down to a diaper, given some tylenol, and  the cool wash cloth treatment as her fever spiked from 101-102.9.

THEN, on thursday when her fever finally broke (around 3 pm) she got a rash!

Here’s a new piece of mommy advice for my new mommy friends:

Do not refer to Dr. Google for rash’s with fever.

It’s dumb. Oh, and it’s gross, too.

Anywho, it was none of the scary things I saw on google…just a viral rash. Fortunately, the rash did not come back, nor did the fever. However, she did develop a nasty cough over the weekend. By Monday, she got a runny nose. It’s been all kinds of sickly in our house and so as you can imagine I now have a sore throat these last two days. I’m hoping it’s just allergies and nothing real.

Did I mention that I am also taking a reading endorsement class? For the record, it is kicking my arse. If things weren’t changing next year, I would drop out faster than you can say “booger.” However, things are changing and I’ve come so far. So, I will get back to the stupid lesson planning crap (what I’m supposed to be doing right now) as soon as I’m done with more important things- like writing a post on my neglected blog. Priorities, people!!

In the meantime, you should know that life hasn’t been all that terrible. I did finish off Babypalooza on Saturday and I’ve got some crafts to show for it. Expect those tomorrow!

Toodles!

I had a baby tonight…

Before you get excited, it wasn’t human.

It was calcified.

As in, I passed a kidney stone.

Again.

The last couple of days I have felt terrible!! I barely slept last night and I kept thinking I needed a day off of school, but with a specialist coming to see one of my preschool students tomorrow and a volunteer teacher certifying some of my high school students on Thursday, it just seemed impossible. I started to sense I was passing a stone on Monday when I got a sharp pain in my lower back while at school that actually made me dizzy. I thought I was going to pass out.

I started freaking out today when I started researching with Dr. Google (I know…bad idea) and found that the only remedy for kidney stones in pregnant women is to either go on bed rest with an IV or get a stent put in. Neither of which works for me right now.

On the way home from school I was almost in tears because I knew I was reaching the point of miserable and that something needed to be done soon. However the stress of thoughts like preterm labor, going on leave early, the baby shower I’m helping to plan this weekend, that stupid reading endorsement class that I can’t miss or else I have to start over, begins to set in and I start freaking out even more.

When I get home I see on the monitor that Jamie is still napping and I hear Matt in the shower. I go to the bathroom to pee and the most amazing thing happens…I pass that wretched stone!

The good news is that this the stupid stone that has been hanging out in my left kidney since my last kidney stone in Nov. 2010. So, I should be free of stones, right? Well, I don’t know…I’ll be talking to my OB and my Urologist for the next couple of days about this. But, I really hope so. I’ve been so careful about my diet.

At least it came out on it’s own! I already feel relief in my back. Let’s hope I sleep better from here on out!